Today I met with Turki at the Sweet Shop where we originally planned to have a normal tutoring session like the usual. We were going to practice more speaking skills in preparation for his IELTS test; however, when he came into the Sweet Shop I could tell something was wrong. He opened up and vented to me about a miscarriage that his brother's wife just had back home in Saudi Arabia. He started getting tears in his eyes and I realized this was no time for teaching or studying. Rather than being there as his tutor, I was there as his friend. He vented to me about how he wished he was home to be there with his brother and family, and how moments like these made him question what it was he was doing in the US. We talked a lot about the trials and tribulations that come along with traveling and it made me think about how I will one day be in the same position that he is in, dealing with these kinds of thoughts and questions. Although we didn't get too much work done, it was nice to be there for him. I think he really needed a friend to vent to and I was glad I was there to fill that role.
My third conversation partner meeting was with Josue, my conversation partner from Paris, France. He suggested that we go to a restaurant for this meeting, and recommended the Colombian restaurant on Tennessee St. called "Super Perros". I had never been to this restaurant before, so it was interesting to not only converse with someone from outside of my culture but also at a cultural restaurant with an atmosphere and menu different than what I am used to. Most of the menu was in Spanish, so we were able to bond over trying to figure out what the menu was saying, and ended up sharing a lot of laughs over it. During our meeting, we caught up on how he was doing at CIES, what he's involved in in Tallahasee, and discussed deeper topics such as the current political affairs going on in France. This led to a grander discussion about American politics, and it turned out we had similar views. It was interesting to connect our ideas across border lines, realizing we all want the ...
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