Today I met with Turki at the Sweet Shop where we originally planned to have a normal tutoring session like the usual. We were going to practice more speaking skills in preparation for his IELTS test; however, when he came into the Sweet Shop I could tell something was wrong. He opened up and vented to me about a miscarriage that his brother's wife just had back home in Saudi Arabia. He started getting tears in his eyes and I realized this was no time for teaching or studying. Rather than being there as his tutor, I was there as his friend. He vented to me about how he wished he was home to be there with his brother and family, and how moments like these made him question what it was he was doing in the US. We talked a lot about the trials and tribulations that come along with traveling and it made me think about how I will one day be in the same position that he is in, dealing with these kinds of thoughts and questions. Although we didn't get too much work done, it was nice to be there for him. I think he really needed a friend to vent to and I was glad I was there to fill that role.
My next tutoring session was with Turki. We met at the Starbucks on Tennessee Street, the usual spot, and started the session with a causal conversation about life and his short term English goals. Turki decided he didn't want to continue with the second session of CIES classes, and that he wanted to rather focus solely on passing the IELTS exam. He said he found the CIES classes to be helpful, but also distracting. He said he thinks he's gotten the most out of his classes and that it would be more productive for him to study on his own. Where I don't completely agree with his logic, it is his life and I trust his decision making. For this session he brought his own material that he wanted to focus on. This time it was a reading passage that I even found to be quite difficult, and I was once again impressed by his far reach in practice and ability. The reading passage was accompanied by a set of numerous comprehension questions that we reviewed and answered together. The qu...
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