On January 13th, I met Sulaiman for coffee. We started discussing the worksheet given to us by the CIES staff but Sulaiman mentioned that he did not understand it, so I explained it to him and we went over what I had written. Sulaiman told me that he has been learning English for two weeks therefore, he is at a beginner level. We spent a lot of our conversation using google translate in order to understand each other. This reminded me of when I was beginning to speak Spanish and needed to make a lot of pauses to look things up. This memory allowed me to have a lot of patience with Sulaiman and to reassure him that I understood what he was going through, and I was not being judgmental. Sulaiman and I talked about our favorite movies and tv shows and how we use this entertainment to learn our second languages. He mentioned that he watches things for the first time in English with Arabic subtitles, then a second time in English with English subtitles. We also talked about our families and the cities we came from. What I took from this conversation was that I do have the capacity to be patient with someone who needs the time to develop their sentences in order to communicate. Additionally I learned that if the person understands you are there to help them and not to make judgements, their affective filter can be lowered.
My next tutoring session was with Turki. We met at the Starbucks on Tennessee Street, the usual spot, and started the session with a causal conversation about life and his short term English goals. Turki decided he didn't want to continue with the second session of CIES classes, and that he wanted to rather focus solely on passing the IELTS exam. He said he found the CIES classes to be helpful, but also distracting. He said he thinks he's gotten the most out of his classes and that it would be more productive for him to study on his own. Where I don't completely agree with his logic, it is his life and I trust his decision making. For this session he brought his own material that he wanted to focus on. This time it was a reading passage that I even found to be quite difficult, and I was once again impressed by his far reach in practice and ability. The reading passage was accompanied by a set of numerous comprehension questions that we reviewed and answered together. The qu...
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