On January 13th, I met Sulaiman for coffee. We started discussing the worksheet given to us by the CIES staff but Sulaiman mentioned that he did not understand it, so I explained it to him and we went over what I had written. Sulaiman told me that he has been learning English for two weeks therefore, he is at a beginner level. We spent a lot of our conversation using google translate in order to understand each other. This reminded me of when I was beginning to speak Spanish and needed to make a lot of pauses to look things up. This memory allowed me to have a lot of patience with Sulaiman and to reassure him that I understood what he was going through, and I was not being judgmental. Sulaiman and I talked about our favorite movies and tv shows and how we use this entertainment to learn our second languages. He mentioned that he watches things for the first time in English with Arabic subtitles, then a second time in English with English subtitles. We also talked about our families and the cities we came from. What I took from this conversation was that I do have the capacity to be patient with someone who needs the time to develop their sentences in order to communicate. Additionally I learned that if the person understands you are there to help them and not to make judgements, their affective filter can be lowered.
My third conversation partner meeting was with Josue, my conversation partner from Paris, France. He suggested that we go to a restaurant for this meeting, and recommended the Colombian restaurant on Tennessee St. called "Super Perros". I had never been to this restaurant before, so it was interesting to not only converse with someone from outside of my culture but also at a cultural restaurant with an atmosphere and menu different than what I am used to. Most of the menu was in Spanish, so we were able to bond over trying to figure out what the menu was saying, and ended up sharing a lot of laughs over it. During our meeting, we caught up on how he was doing at CIES, what he's involved in in Tallahasee, and discussed deeper topics such as the current political affairs going on in France. This led to a grander discussion about American politics, and it turned out we had similar views. It was interesting to connect our ideas across border lines, realizing we all want the ...
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